My dear autism and special needs parents

My dear autism and special needs parents:

On the days you feel your worst,

remember that you are beautiful

On the days you feel like you don’t know what you’re doing, know that you are brilliant

On the days you feel exhausted and can’t go any further, look back and see how far you’ve come

On the days you feel you can’t handle another battle,

look at your scars and be proud of the ones you’ve won

On the days you feel alone, know that you never are…

Even if you don’t think you can push through, you can – one step, one breath (one coffee, one set of eye pads) at a time💙

Sleep is so often something we don’t get as autism parents. Our kiddos can have a particularly challenging time falling or staying asleep.

For a while our challenge was the staying asleep. Now it’s BOTH falling asleep and staying asleep.

I often wonder how long it takes before the human body can’t take anymore…

I wonder how long I can function on such little sleep.

I wonder how my child can have so.much.energy. without having slept.

And then from somewhere, the strength keeps coming.

Moment by moment, breath by breath, I hold on to hope.

Hope turns the impossible into possible…and sometimes that’s all we need to get us through.

Hope for this moment, hope for this day. Hold on to hope my dear friends.

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Grit & Grace Rising

Hi, I’m Laurel… I am a wife. I am a mother to Luke, born prematurely due to HELLP Syndrome. Luke was born with a congential heart defect and a kidney defect. I work in education. And I am gritty. I write the blog, Of Grit & Grace. It’s my space, my outlet and my way of working through some of life’s challenges. It’s my healing. I believe in living each moment to the fullest because tomorrow is promised to no one. I believe in seeing the blessing instead of the burden, giving hope to the hopeless, and walking by faith. I believe there is purpose in pain – we have to find it.

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